Well, making progress, I think.
I went through the Apache install.
At the end when I typed "sudo apachectl -k graceful" , it said:
AH00558: apache2: Could not reliably determine the server's fully qualified domain name, using 127.0.1.1. Set the 'ServerName' directive globally to suppress this message
Anyway, if I enter in https://mywebsitename/joplin, I get the initial login page.
I changed my creds my correct e-mail and a new password and it says it will e-mail a confirmation.
But it doesn't . No e-mail.
Going back to https://mywebsitename/joplin/home, I'm told "A confirmation email has been sent to your new address. Please follow the link in that email to confirm. Your email will only be updated after that."
Without the e-mail I'm kinda dead in the water.
Thoughts?
Thanks